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The Dark Side of Toxic Positivity: Are We Ignoring Our Real Emotions?
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The Dark Side of Toxic Positivity: Are We Ignoring Our Real Emotions?

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C.Daley
Oct 24, 2024
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In our contemporary culture, we are constantly bombarded with messages that prioritize positivity. Social media platforms are filled with hashtags like #GoodVibesOnly and #StayPositive, promoting a relentless pursuit of optimism. While there’s no denying that a positive outlook can be beneficial, this push toward perpetual positivity can lead to a troubling phenomenon known as toxic positivity. This approach to emotional well-being can invalidate genuine feelings of pain, sadness, or anger, leading to a host of emotional and psychological consequences.

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